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Let Go ======= One day while climbing towards a high cliff a man slipped and fell over the edge. Frantic - he grabbed at a branch jutting out from a tree and yelled out, "Oh, God, help me." He looked down while holding on tight and saw only jagged rocks. Clutching even tighter to the branch he cried out again, "God...Please help me." Suddenly he felt God's presence and heard God ask, "My son, what can I do for you?' The man, somewhat relieved, answered, "Please God, help me. Save me." God said quietly, "Do you love me? Do you trust me? Do you believe in me?" "Yes, yes, I love you. I trust you and I believe in you," the man shouted. "Well, if indeed you love me, trust me, and believe in me, LET GO." With some hesitation and another look below at the jagged rocks, the man asked, "Is there anybody else up there I can talk to?" We often seek other answers when our real answer can only come when we "Let Go" of some things. Though the above is an often-told joke, it is a true parable. So often in counseling, I tell people the same thing. "You have got to let go. That situation is killing you. It is killing your peace, your finances, and your future. You must let go!" Often they will inwardly feel just as the hanging man asked, "Is there anybody else that I can talk to, because I am afraid to let go? I know the situation is killing me, that's why I'm here. I know that what I am holding on to is destined to die. I know I cannot fully live while I remain embraced with it. But I am soooo... afraid. Afraid that I might fall if I let go." Like a person on drugs, you often must "come down" before you can ever get back up. You must fall from one high, to rise to an entirely different type of high. You must let go of the bad before you can ever fully embrace the good. Someone, somewhere, right now is hanging on to something that you know in your heart is not good for you. You think the fall will kill you But It won't. To keep on hanging on will eventually tire you to the point where you will fall. There is a big difference between falling because you hung on so long that you lost your grip, and letting go of a thing in wisdom, obedience, and faith while there is still strength left. Wisdom whispers ever so softly for you to let go of the thing that you know is not good for you. You need to Let Go. Now!
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