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#31 tight booty

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Posted 17 March 2008 - 08:04 PM

QUOTE(vindiesel @ Mar 16 2008, 01:11 AM) View Post

QUOTE(tight booty @ Mar 12 2008, 01:04 PM) View Post

I am so sorry for your loss Vindiesel! My heart goes out to you! Very sad news! If you need anything please ask!

Thank you, tb. The funeral is on Tuesday. I'm not sure I can deal with that ... I still remember the day I said goodbye to my mom, that was 3 years ago and I can't think about her without crying.

I hate funerals. If you are anything like me then you will go through the day like you are in shock and everything will be kind of a blur! I think the worst thing is seeing the hurst. Thats devastating to say the least! Vin......Words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. I know you truely miss your mum and to lose your dad 3 years later must be extremely hard and hurtful! Be strong and call on your friends (yes internet ones too) as much as you need!

#32 Anabolic Beast

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Posted 18 March 2008 - 06:07 AM

Vin, I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your father. My wife and I will keep you in our prayers and pray that your father will now rest in peace by God's side.

#33 vindiesel

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Posted 19 March 2008 - 01:41 AM

QUOTE(Anabolic Beast @ Mar 17 2008, 11:07 PM) View Post

Vin, I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your father. My wife and I will keep you in our prayers and pray that your father will now rest in peace by God's side.


Thank you, AB. I must admit that today was really tough. I had been there three years ago when my mom passed away. Seeing the coffin there at the crematorium made it so real: I'll never see my dad again. I guess that I thought he would be here forever ... Now I'm all alone and I'm not sure I can cope with the situation.

This thread is already 3 pages long and I must say that I didn't imagine I had made so many friends at the board. I'll try and post more often from now on.

Thanks again for your support!

#34 any1uno

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Posted 19 March 2008 - 11:04 PM

I am sorry for you loss Ms Vin. I wish there was some way to comfort you in this tough time. Just know that your parents are with you in heart and spirit. If you need anything please feel free to hollar. Take care of yourself and smile.

#35 Born2Juice4Ever

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Posted 20 March 2008 - 02:32 AM

Hi Vin sweetie!!

Are you kidding? Look at the thread at IBB also...lots of people are with you at some point during their days,....and this energetic fields of possitive and loving thoughts surrounds you.


I know that words come short in such moments, and at times they can be very abstract: Stay possitive huney@ It will get better in time.


Hugs and kisses!


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#36 vindiesel

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Posted 20 March 2008 - 02:44 AM

QUOTE(Born2Juice4Ever @ Mar 19 2008, 07:32 PM) View Post

Hi Vin sweetie!!

Are you kidding? Look at the thread at IBB also...lots of people are with you at some point during their days,....and this energetic fields of possitive and loving thoughts surrounds you.


I know that words come short in such moments, and at times they can be very abstract: Stay possitive huney@ It will get better in time.


Hugs and kisses!


b2J


You're right, B2J. I'm surrounded by friends at the boards and I need that right now.

Today was a bit better than yesterday. I went to work as usual (most people take at least 4 days off from work when they lose a close family member but I realize that keeping busy is probably what I need the most ....). I spent most of the day outdoors. It keeps my mind off of things.

At night, I spend my time surfing the boards, chatting on yahoo and watching TV.

I'll be away next week but I'll log in every day to check my PM's and emails.

Thanks again, guys!

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#37 kb91notch347

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Posted 20 March 2008 - 02:50 AM

QUOTE(vindiesel @ Mar 18 2008, 12:41 PM) View Post

I'll never see my dad again. I guess that I thought he would be here forever ... Now I'm all alone and I'm not sure I can cope with the situation.

This thread is already 3 pages long and I must say that I didn't imagine I had made so many friends at the board. I'll try and post more often from now on.

Thanks again for your support!



Sorry to hear the sad news V. I've wondered too how it will feel when my mom passes. My dad died a little over 9 years ago and I still miss him a lot.

Thinking about you...

KB

#38 vindiesel

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Posted 20 March 2008 - 03:33 AM

QUOTE(kb91notch347 @ Mar 19 2008, 07:50 PM) View Post

Sorry to hear the sad news V. I've wondered too how it will feel when my mom passes. My dad died a little over 9 years ago and I still miss him a lot.

Thinking about you...

KB


Hey KB

Losing my mom was a terrible ordeal. I miss her. She was my best (and only) female friend. I shared a lot with her.
My dad had a very bad temper, he ordered me around as if I was still a kid and I couldn't stand it. He made me feel as if I was never good enough and it was really hard. Now that he isn't around anymore, I wonder if I have done enough for him .. and if I was a good daughter.

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Posted 23 March 2008 - 10:54 AM

Vin I belive that you where the best daughter that you could be..and I am sure that you mean more to him than anything. YOu are a great person!!! I am so sorry for you loss!! Hang in there girl. we are here for ya.

#40 Gimp

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Posted 23 March 2008 - 12:57 PM

I am sorry for your loss.

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Posted 23 March 2008 - 03:36 PM

Very sorry for your loss...parayers your way!





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